It’s not about appearing confident, it’s about reflecting truth. “Not giving a f*ck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different.” — Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F — The other day I read an article around approval seeking behavior. Apparently this…

If you can’t call the person you’re “connecting” with then the odds are, you’re consuming them. The cost of living in an advanced world is deep connection. I was on Facetime with a friend the other night when we started exploring our thoughts behind content consumption. In this context, the recurring thought was “why are people are so obsessed with other…

Spoiler: It’s nothing like the memes from Instagram Picture paying a lot of money to someone that will expose your flaws, challenge your thinking, and occasionally — make you cry. It’s called a breakthrough. Therapy requires deep self-work and is expensive in more than one way. I’ve left sessions feeling…

As 2021 approaches, I feel compelled to share my biggest learning outcomes from this cinematic year! Disclaimer: I’m unattached and optimistic. I was reading an article by Sean Kernan earlier that spoke to a relevant theory called The Reality Tunnel. In short each person has a unique view of the…

Try staying open and objective Psychological projection is a defense mechanism. It protects the human ego against their unconscious impulses or qualities by denying them within themselves and attributing them to others. Bullies project very well. There’s a great Key & Peele episode called School Bully that is a prime…

Mobile and web apps are being viewed differently since the pandemic. We now see how helpful technology can be in our day to day lives. With these superpower apps on our devices, it’s important to know how to use your powers wisely. Over the span of a month I’ve better…

Given the circumstances, the job you want might feel especially out of reach. While for others, the pandemic is helping them live their best remote life. I’ve been reflecting on how working remotely is such a privilege. Beginning week 4 of my quarantine mindful of three things: Introspection Efficacy in…

Skillshare — Starting at the top When I log into Skillshare the first three sections are about me, the user. The language in the first few sections remind me of a teacher that cares about their students. With a welcoming CTA that suggests I continue my next lesson. They also encourage me to follow skills and…